love.....

while surfing the net i read this quote and it caught my attention and decided to post it...... well i just hope kung gaano kadali sabihin ganon di kadaling gawin =) =(


What to Do When Your Love's Left You (or the universe has otherwise brought you grief)

1. Honor your enemies. It is they who make you strong and wise. (But see #4.)

2. Define your own reality. Let no one tell you what to think, how to act, nor how you are supposed to feel.

3. The heart cannot be broken. Only the barriers that protect the heart from the pain of life can be broken. Although never sought, heartache can be seen as a deep opening of the heart.

4. Do not be kind. Honor the love you shared; be decent in all your actions, but recognize that in these circumstances, kindness is a lie.

5. Cut all energetic bonds between you. They can be used to manipulate you and hurt you further. If there is to be reconciliation, let it be from new material, not the re-engagement of the previous energies.

6. Think of yourself first for one full year; beginning right now.

7. Let go. Give up. Die. (But don't really kill yourself, please!) The earth will recycle you. Lay down on her and pour your pain into her. Envision yourself as a dead body. Let yourself be eaten by the beetles and worms and excreted as manure for the plants which are eaten by people like you. It all goes round, so let go. Let go of blame. Let go of shame. Let go of guilt.

8. Smile. Even if you don't feel like it. Smiling--the actual tightening of the muscles involved in making a smile--causes the release of feel-good chemicals (endorphins) in the brain. When in pain, remember, smiling is more effective than drink or drugs.

co-workers

these are my friends from my previous work,

snow

here's some of my pictures when we went to play with snow. it was really fun and its actually my first time to see and touch the snow. how i wish my nephew is here to see and play with im sure he will enjoy it.

im back

well im back from my vacation in los angeles, just stayed there for 9 days and was back again to sacramento. i was happy to see my relatives there especially my cousin who is ill, her looks is now very different from the last time i saw her. its so sad to see people who is very healthy dati and now you see them like that but we cant do anything about it and just accept it. i really believe that things happen for a reason eventhough we dont want it or we keep on preventing it to happen it will still happen cause there will be a reason behind that. as for me im miles away from my family and i didnt plan this or even think about it dati but it happened. di ko akalain na malalayo ako sa family ko and i didnt think i will survive but i am surviving. i know GOD have reasons why these things happen so you just have to trust HIM and dont forget to pray always and ask for His guidance.

my dad's 60th birthday

yesterday march 7 was the 60th birthday of my dad, my mom will also turn 60 on the 22nd of this month so they decided to go to baguio to celebrate with them was also my lolo and uncle. i just hope they had fun there cause they really deserve a break from their work. actually every year my parents usually goes there for vacation cause the weather in baguio is really different form manila and my dad really likes the cold weather there especially during summer time.

to my mom and dad happy happy happy birthday!!!!

going to los angeles

ill be going to los angeles this friday to visit my family there especially my cousin who is ill. im also taking advantage of my vacation cause when i get back to work there will be no time for me to go there . from where im staying its really far from LA. i just hope and pray everything will be okay when i go there as well as when i come back.

my favorite children's book

these are the two of my favorite books, yes its a childrens book but as i read it i feel in love with it and i guess with these books it says it all about love. so when i go to a bookstore i will definetely go to there children section and check the books there. i really enjoy reading these kind of books cause its just short but yet it has a very meaningful message.